I suspect you exist. I exist, and I will allow for you to exist as an extension of myself, or as a individuated unit of coconsciousness interacting with me as other.

I don't think you need to be better. I think you wonderfully perfect, even in imperfect. That said, i think i need to be better.. and so either that is a self delusion that comes with existence, evidence of accurate assessment of self, self delusion perpetuated by a system paradigm that measures worth in productivity, or the stick the shepherd is using to make the flock taste better before they best serve man. Imagine all the cattle lined up for slaughter thinking, "I wish I was better." Next cow, "I wonder if I should have gone down the path less taken..." "Oh, this is fun. I love six flag rides..."